Resources 

BOOKS

Relationship Books by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. & Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D, co-creators of Imago
  • A New Way to Love, by Harville Hendrix
  • Finding and Keeping the Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix
  • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition by, Harville Hendrix 
  • Giving The Love That Heals, by Harville PhD Hendrix 
  • Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide, by Ph.D. Harville Hendrix  
  • Making Marriage Simple: Ten Truths for Changing the Relationship You Have into the One You Want, by Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt,  Published 2013
  • Receiving Love: Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself Be Loved, by Harville Hendrix Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D.​
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Relationship Books by Stan Tatkin, developer of PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy)
  • Your Brain on Love: The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships
  • Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
  • Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple Therapy, with coauthor Marion Solomon
 
Relationship Books by Susan Johnson, creator of EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy)
  • Hold Me Tight
  • Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships
 
Relationship Books by other authors
  • After the Affair, Updated Second Edition: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis A. Spring 
  • Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead, by Brene Brown  
  • Not Just Friends, by Shirley Glass, Ph.D.
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert... by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver 

Mindfulness and Related Topics
  • Buddha’s Brain, by Rick Hanson, Ph.D.
  • Loving What Is:  Four Questions that Can Change Your Life, by Byron Katie
  • The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, by Eckhart Tolle
  • True Refuge: Finding Peace and Freedom in Your Own Awakened Heart, by Tara Brach, Ph.D.
  • Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha, by Tara Brach, Ph.D.
  • Rewire Your Brain for Love: Creating Vibrant Relationships Using the Science of Mindfulness, by Marsha Lucas, Ph.D.
  • Wherever You Go, There You Are, by Jon Kabat Zinn, Ph.D.
ARTICLES QUOTE/POEMS
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"We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time."
~ T. S. Eliot
VIDEOS
Harville Hendrix: The Marriage Whisperer | Relationships | AARP
The bestselling author talks about why you fall in love with the person you do and how to improve your relationship if it turns negative.
Dr. Sue Johnson (an update)
Dr. Sue Johnson talks about love, relationships and her books "Hold Me Tight" and "Love Sense".
 The PACT Institute: Preview the PACT Training​ | Stan Tatkin, Psy.D.
PACT is a fusion of developmental neuroscience, attachment theory, and arousal regulation and is quickly gaining a reputation for treating the most challenging couples.
An Introduction to Imago Therapy
This video introduces you to Imago Therapy through clips from the incredibly helpful Through Conflict to Connection DVD available from gettingtheloveyouwant.com. Visit the website and learn how Imago Therapy can help your marriage or relationship!
Soothing the Threatened Brain | Dr. Sue Johnson
A landmark study, shows that we can now effectively help couples, not just understand their relationship a little better or fight a little less, but create the secure loving bonds that soothe our brain.
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The Power of Vulnerability | Brene Brown | TED Talks
 Brene Brown studies human connection -- our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk at TEDxHouston, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share.
Tara Brach "Sacred Pause"
Tara Brach leads you in a short effective presence-based meditation.
Life is right now - Jon Kabat-Zinn on Mindfulness
Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn speaks about the latest research on Mindfulness. How can we be more present in our lives? What does it mean in a larger context?
It is time to awaken.